Do you no longer feel in control of your alcohol use and does ‘wanting to' drink often switch to ‘having to’ drink? Then you might be dealing with alcohol dependency or addiction.
It was very hard for me to admit to my family that I had a drinking problem.
In society, alcohol is often considered important and ‘normal’. 70% of all adult alcohol addictions originate in student life. Approximately 30% of students drink too much alcohol. The number of students addicted to alcohol remains stable at 2 to 5%. The most notable increase is found in drinking patterns such as binge drinking, pregaming and drinking games. Youngsters who have a drinking problem usually find it difficult to take the first step towards seeking (professional) help.
Alcohol has a direct effect on the body. It numbs the brain and affects your emotions: it can trigger feelings of elation or audacity, but also aggression, carelessness, rest, sleepiness, relaxation, apathy or indifference.
Consuming large amounts of alcohol slows down your responsiveness and reaction time. You hear and see less sharply. Your self-confidence can increase to a misleadingly high degree and turn into boldness. This can be dangerous, for instance in traffic. As such, alcohol use is a key risk factor for accidents and injuries.
An even greater amount of alcohol lowers your control over your movement and coordination skills. Walking turns to staggering, and talking to lalling. Often, you fail to remember exactly what has happened or what has been discussed. Excessive alcohol consumption can put you in a coma and cause heart problems.
Alcohol does not affect everyone the same. While one person may feel tipsy after one shot, the other needs several glasses to feel any impact. Some like the effects of alcohol, others simply hate them.
As a youngster, you are likely to feel the effects of alcohol faster and more intensely since you are smaller, lighter and still growing. Therefore, your brain, nervous system and organs are more vulnerable to the harmful effects of alcohol. Drinking a lot at a young age can lead to irreparable damage.
There is also a slight difference between males and females. As alcohol is dispersed through bodily fluid and males generally have 10% more fluid than females, the latter get tipsy more quickly and intensely.
There is no clear answer to this question, it depends (among other things) on the amount of alcohol you consume, how you consume it and how long you are or have been drinking.
When you are no longer in control of your alcohol use, ‘wanting to' drink changes into ‘having to’ drink. You start becoming dependent on alcohol and no longer functioning well without it. The desire for alcohol is always on your mind.
Alcohol dependence is situated on two levels:
Alcohol dependence is harmful both physically and mentally, but it can be damaging for your surroundings as well. It may bring about health and financial problems, and arguments with relatives and loved ones. You may start to perform badly, feel lonely and develop psychological issues. There is even a risk of dragging yourself and/or others into dangerous situations.
There are four types of excessive alcohol use:
When you reduce your alcohol intake or stop drinking altogether after a period of excessive use, you can start to experience withdrawal symptoms like shaky hands, sweating, muscle cramps, dreariness, an agitated or anxious feeling, fatigue or sleeping problems.
Withdrawal symptoms differ from one person to the next. Some people struggle more than others. Usually, these symptoms start to appear from the first week in which you reduce or stop your alcohol intake. After a few days, they tend to diminish, yet feelings of agitation, anxiousness, dreariness and sleeping troubles can sometimes linger.
Alcohol is and remains a harmful substance. Therefore, we’ve listed a number of tips below to help you control your alcohol consumption:
Changing your alcohol consumption pattern is not always easy. It can be quite challenging to keep your promise and deal with peer pressure, especially at the beginning. Focus on your goal and reward yourself! Be proud of saying “no” and think of it as a “yes” to yourself and your health.
I am glad I took the step to work on my problem. It felt good to finally be able to talk to someone about my troubles.
Do you feel you drink too much but do you struggle to talk about it? A lot of people are ashamed and find excuses for their alcohol abuse. However, alcohol dependence is nothing to be ashamed of, it can happen to anybody. If you are worried, try to open up and start a conversation. Talk to somebody you trust and feel good around, preferably someone you know, like a good friend, your parents or siblings. This can bring relief and help you sort things out. You can also find help together.
If you struggle to talk to someone in your close surroundings, try to approach a person who is who is familiar with such experiences, such as a GP or student counsellor at your college or university.
Would you prefer to share your story anonymously? You can always call on Awel (102 or awel.be) or Tele-Onthaal (106 or tele-onthaal.be). If you have dark thoughts or questions about suicide, contact the Suicide Hotline (1813 or zelfmoord1813.be). bellen.
If you want to drink less or stop drinking altogether, you can also find support in online programmes. Contact the dedicated substance abuse centre ‘Druglijn’ for any questions concerning alcohol, drugs, pills, gaming and gambling. Self-tests and self-help modules are also available there.
Do you feel you are not able to manage by yourself? Then it is important to rely on professional help, for example through health care professionals who specialise in alcohol abuse. You can request more information, anonymously, through ‘Druglijn’ or directly via your general practitioner.
Multiple types of assistance and help are available, yet there is no single magical method that will solve all your problems at once. Practically all types of help have a couple of workable elements in common, such as:
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Druglijn enables you to ask any questions you may have about alcohol, drugs, pills, gaming and gambling. Self-tests and self-help modules are also available here.
Maxx app supports you in a positive and practical way in your attempt to drink less or stop drinking altogether. (Dutch)
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